I didn’t realize just how hard I’ve worked to get the boys where they are today… the obstacles we’ve face, the countless hours of OT, PT and Speech therapy we’ve done on our own and with therapists to get to where we are today… until I had to start from scratch with Jaxson.
I actually had to REALLY think… what on earth did I start doing with the boys? Because “normal” play for this age is over his head for right now. I had to go back to basics, remember where I started with Justin and Tyler… what games did I make up or toys did I create or do that helped them learn and explore safely?
This whole experience with Jaxson has been a huge eye opener of just how much Justin and Tyler have grown. It’s a little overwhelming… because I know just how much work I’ve got in store with me and Jax.
I’ve still been in kind of denial about Jax… Especially without a formal diagnosis, I didn’t want to be on either side of the fence about him being Autistic. But everyday, I’m being pushed more to one side than the other.
So, instead of trying to get him interested in things that he “should” be interested in at his age, I’m going to start from the beginning… like I did with Justin and Tyler after they regressed and work our way up. I still wanted to hold out hope that he was just a “slow learner”. That him being sick a lot or going through growth spurts (so he needs more sleep) have been slowing him down… but the doctors apt was the real eye opener I needed. The questions she asked about what he COULD do and then the pamphlet of the things to do with your baby at this age… I’ve decided to stop driving myself crazy.
Jax has a form of Autism and that’s okay. We are going to do everything we need to to help him, just like we would if he wasn’t Autistic. We’re just going to do it differently. 🙂
First game “In and Out”. I put all the toys in, and he dumps them out… until he gets to the point where he starts putting them in. Second game will be “Up Up Up Up DOWN”… where I stack the blocks up up up up and he knocks them down. These will help with Small and Gross motor skills, taking turns, action-reaction, sequencing; it teaches him what he should do with the toys, and it also teaches him a few words. 🙂 Those were the boys favorites when they first regressed. 🙂
As of right now, he just wants to chew on them. 😀 lol
We’ll be setting up all his apts to get evaluated this coming week… so this summer should be a busy one! 🙂